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Disrespect, Defiance, and Disruption
#466 03/11/2020 8:11 AM
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A few days ago, Mr. O'Shea sent out an email asking us (the teachers) to answer some questions. As a teacher, my point of view is unique. I'm curious as to what your point of view is, as a student.

1. What is DISRESPECT to you?
2. What do you consider to be DEFIANCE?
3. What does DISRUPTION in your classes look like?
4. How do your teachers handle this in class?

Please answer all four questions. Please DO NOT use any names of students or teachers.

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1. What is DISRESPECT to you?
- being rude and ignorant to someone
2. What do you consider to be DEFIANCE?
- refusing to do something
3. What does DISRUPTION in your classes look like?
- non-stop talking
4. How do your teachers handle this in class?
- seating charts, or sends them out

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matthews #468 03/11/2020 8:20 AM
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1. I think disrespect is whenever somebody offends or to be rude to someone
2. I think defiance is when you do the opposite of what someone tells you to do.
3. Disruption in my classes is normally people talking or someone on their phone.
4. Normally the teacher would just tell the kids to stop talking or tell them to put your phone away. Some teachers might be stricter and take your phone.

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matthews #469 03/11/2020 8:22 AM
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1. What is DISRESPECT to you?
Disrespect is anything to try and "show off" against a power(s).
2. What do you consider to be DEFIANCE?
Blatantly going against a power(s)
3. What does DISRUPTION in your classes look like?
Obnoxious presence, unnecessary actions.
4. How do your teachers handle this in class?
Mostly backing down or sending them out.

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matthews #470 03/11/2020 8:22 AM
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1.Disrespect is when you basically don't follow rules of someone in their own house

2.Defiance is just not listening to authority and doing exactly what they told you not to do

3.Disruption is basically doing obnoxious things while the teacher is teaching

4.Well most of the time they ask you to be quiet and if that doesn't work then you go straight to ISS

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matthews #472 03/11/2020 8:54 AM
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1, having an attitude or ignoring someone
2, not following clear rules
3, kids talking when they aren't supposed to or arguing with the teacher
4, usually threaten to write them up and if it continues they do write them up and if that doesn't work they send them out

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1. Having an attitude or being ignorant to someone basically not respecting someone.

2. Defiance to me is not listening or basically doing the opposite of what your being told.

3. Constantly talking when your told not to, not doing your work, messing with other students, not paying attention

4. My teachers gives them warnings and if they don't listen then they get wrote up.

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.Disrespect is when you basically don't follow rules of someone in their own house

2.Defiance is just not listening to peers and doing exactly what they told you not to do

3.Disruption is basically being annoying doing stuff to get under people skin

4. they try to scare use by trying to right us up but that don't work it just make do student want to get of you nerves more but if that dont work they den try to send us home

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1. Being rude, not obeying rules, and making them feel less.
2. Not following the rules that they are suppose to.
3. Talking when the teacher is talking, Using phones while teacher is lecturing, and playing around making noises.
4. Most teacher asked them to quit doing what they aren't suppose to do or else they write them up or send them to office/ISS.

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1) Disrespect means when you don't listen to someone and choose to do the exact opposite of what they tell you to do instead of listening to them
2) When you resist and disagree with what is told to you
3) Disruption is usually when a student causes a scene in the class and grabs everyone's attention is a bad way
4) The teacher usually handles this by sending the student out or trying to calm down the student, and they usually end up writing them up

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1. What is DISRESPECT to you?
- being rude to someone
2. What do you consider to be DEFIANCE?
- Like not listening to the person that told you to do something
3. What does DISRUPTION in your classes look like?
- like distracting other people while their doing something
4. How do your teachers handle this in class?
- by sending them to the office or move them in a different seat

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1, being rude and unkind for no reason.
2,not listening to authorities
3 that one group of students who talk to much they know who they are.
4,usually write them up

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1. Disrespect to me is when someone is not doing or saying things, but not in the right way.
2. Not listening at all.
3. Being loud and making a lot of moment. That makes a big disruption.
4. They handle it by moving the seating chart or just giving them warnings.

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I think whats disrespectful is that when students act dumb and that also my answer to defiance. When students say or act dumb is a really good disruption how my teachers handle this is just like a everyday thing.

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1. Disrespect is when you are told to not do something, but then do so, or get smart with said person.
2. Ignoring a blatant command given from a Superior.
3. A disruption is something that prohibits your fellow piers from learning from the teacher.
4. It has been statistically proven by students from Harvard University that 90% of teachers will not do a single thing to prevent this other then give an empty threat, while 3% will ignore the student completely, and let them continue, and the other 7% will warn the student, then go through with their threat of punishment if they don't take it seriously.

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Being Disrespectful is disregarding and being ignorant to someone.
Defiance is more or less not following rules and not listening.
Disruption in a class is students not listening to a teacher and not doing what was told.
and how they may handle a situation is sending the student out of class and writing them up.

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1. What is DISRESPECT to you?
When anyone is rude or judgmental.
2. What do you consider to be DEFIANCE?
When someone purposely doesn't listen or do what they are told.
3. What does DISRUPTION in your classes look like?
Students that misbehave and are loud, obnoxious, and not doing their work.
4. How do your teachers handle this in class?
Some teachers politely tell them to stop but do not handle the situation. Others warn them and then follow up with disciplinary actions.

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1) Disrespect Is not listening or doing things you were asked not to do
2) Refusing do do as your told.
3) Constant bickering, talking and commotion.
4) Asking them to settle down or stop.

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1. Disrespect is the act of being rude to others

2. Defiance is the act of standing for something that you don't want to do or one doesn't want to do

3. Disruption looks like others doing something the teacher doesn't want them to, talking while the teachers talking, and usually playing around

4. They give the students a warning and if after several attempts at getting them to stop will send them out

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disrespect is then you dont listen or dont do what you are asked or told to do defiance is when students act dumb 2 or more people arguing going back in forth the whole block they should write them up and get them out of the class so everyone else can do there work

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1. Disrespect is the act of being rude to others

2. Defiance is the act of standing for something that you don't want to do or one doesn't want to do
3. Disruption looks like others doing something the teacher doesn't want them to, talking while the teachers talking, and usually playing around
4. They give the students a warning and if after several attempts at getting them to stop will send them out

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A reader emailed SCM last week wondering how to handle six students who were wreaking havoc in his classroom.

Every day they were disruptive.

They were talkative and silly. They called out during lessons and made inappropriate comments.

They played off one another and held little regard for his expectations.

Most distressing, when he’d confront them or attempt to hold them accountable, they would become disrespectful.

They would argue and complain. They would lie and deny. They would talk back and then goof off when sent to time-out.

The teacher was at the end of his rope and desperate for answers.

One or two disrespectful students are hard enough. How do you handle a half dozen who are determined to make your life miserable?

Well, you don’t. At least, not directly.

You see, one of the most common mistakes teachers make is trying to handle difficult students as distinct entities, separate from the class as a whole.

Day after day, this teacher was pulling them aside for one-on-one talking-tos. He was lecturing them, counseling them, and giving them pep-talks.

He set up behavior contracts, offered rewards in exchange for good behavior, and had consequences designed just for them.

But these individualized methods only make matters worse—because they encourage misbehavior.

They cause resentment and antagonism. They wipe out intrinsic motivation and label students as “difficult,” which becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

The truth is, when you have several or more students who consistently disrupt learning and behave disrespectfully, it’s a sign you’ve lost control of your class—or never had it to begin with.

It’s a classroom management problem, not an individual student problem.

And the only way to fix it is to start over from the beginning.

It’s to establish sharply defined, non-negotiable boundaries of behavior for all students that are designed to protect your freedom to teach and your students’ freedom to learn.

Create a clear, no-nonsense classroom management plan that covers every possible misbehavior. Teach, model, and practice it so there are no misunderstandings or excuses not to follow it.

Then defend it to the hilt.

If you’re in the middle of the school year, it may take several days to see results.

You may even get considerable pushback, especially from the core of disrespectful students who have grown accustomed to having their way and dictating the environment of the class.

But if you fulfill your promise to protect the right of every student to learn and enjoy school, if you refrain from pulling students aside to scold, lecture, and bribe, and instead let your classroom management plan do your talking for you, then you’ll begin to reel them in.

Your most well-behaved students will respond first. You’ll notice them smiling more and making eye contact with you. They’ll be more openly friendly and appreciative. They’ll cheer you on from afar.

Then a few more students will join in support. One by one, you’ll begin picking them off and pulling them into your sphere of influence.

Before long, just one of your most difficult students will turn things around. They’ll abruptly start making the right choices.

They’ll become more respectful. They’ll grow calmer, happier, and more responsive to you and your expectations. They’ll like being part of the class.

Then another difficult student will come aboard. Then another.

You’ll now have more time and freedom to really enjoy your class and teach with greater passion. Your stress will fall away. You’ll smile and laugh more often and begin building real influence and rapport with your students.

You’ll have leverage.

Soon, the last few holdouts will take a look around and notice that no one is laughing at their jokes anymore. No one is amused by their antics.

They’ll realize that following rules and participating as a valued member of the class is a better option than creating their own brand of fun or behaving rebelliously. They’ll shrug their shoulders and join in too.

After all, you’ve made their choice an easy one.

You’ve made the gap between the experience of being part of the class, and the experience of being held accountable, so wide that no student can resist.

You’ve left the door to a safe, warm, and dry place wide open—where they’re welcomed and accepted and can leave their baggage behind.

Where they can be part of something special and bigger than themselves. Where their intrinsic motivational engines can finally begin to turn.

This is no pie-in-the-sky scenario.

It’s a transformation that is taking place in classrooms all over the world. Here at SCM, we receive hundreds of unsolicited email success stories every year.

Our approach to classroom management has been proven to turn around any group of students—no matter how disrespectful or ill-behaved.

If you’re new to our website or newsletter, I encourage you to visit our archive (along the sidebar), where you’ll find over 450 articles covering nearly every classroom management topic imaginable.

You may also want to pick up one of our books or sign up for personal coaching.

Finally, I have a new book coming out in May called The Happy Teacher Habits, which reveals 11 little-known secrets of the happiest, most effective teachers on Earth.

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1. Disrespect is the act of being rude to others

2. Refusing do do as your told.

3. Disruption looks like others doing something the teacher doesn't want them to, talking while the teachers talking, and usually playing around

4. They handle it by moving the seating

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1. Disrespect is a continued behavior of rudeness and unawareness.

2. Defiance is when the teacher gives a direct order and the student doesn't care or goes against said order.

3. Disruption is when a student disturbers another student/class with there actions.

4. Teachers handle this most of the time, by doing a three strikes and your out approach.

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1. Disrespect is a continued behavior of rudeness and unawareness.

2. Defiance is when the teacher gives a direct order and the student doesn't care or goes against said order.

3. Disruption is when a student disturbers another student/class with there actions.

4. Teachers handle this most of the time, by doing a three strikes and your out approach.

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1. To me disrespect is swearing,beating, and/or racist/sexist comments.
2. Being rude to a teacher or staff.
3. Students arguing,physical fighting,and on YouTube.
4. My teachers handle disrution is by giving the student a warning and if they get in trouble again the teacher sends them to ISS.

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1. What is DISRESPECT to you?
When somebody being a jerk and being very disrespectful
2. What do you consider to be DEFIANCE?
Not listening to the person that told you to do something and disobeying them
3. What does DISRUPTION in your classes look like?
People talking when the teacher is teaching or someone on their phone and playing around in class disrupting other students from learning.
4. How do your teachers handle this in class?
By talking to them at the end of class or changing their seat or sending them to the office or calling their parents about the situation



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1.Disrespect is anything that showing no respect or courtesy to a person.

2. Being defiance is when you go against the authority or rules set before you.

3. A disruption is when someone or something causes a distraction or disturbance to others.

4. Most wait for them to calm down if not yelling , they write them up, or just ignore it.

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1. What is DISRESPECT to you?
- is when you talking back and being rude.
2. What do you consider to be DEFIANCE?
- when you push the persons buttons.
3. What does DISRUPTION in your classes look like?
-when someone talk when you talk.
4. How do your teachers handle this in class?
- by talking to us in the nices manner as they can.

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1. What is DISRESPECT to you?
Disrespect to me, is when someone goes out of their way to be offensive.
2. What do you consider to be DEFIANCE?
Doing something against what someone says
3. What does DISRUPTION in your classes look like?
People shouting, laughing, talking over the teachers
4. How do your teachers handle this in class?
By threatening them with, or giving them a referral, though this rarely works imo

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1. In my eyes disrespect is insulting others for no apparent reason.
2. Being defiant is not listening to the people who know whats best for you
3. Disruption in class means students talking while the teacher is trying to teach
4. referrals or out of school suspension

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Disrespect comes in many forms. Something is disrespectful if it makes you feel offended if that something had the intent of making you feel offended.

Defiance is the act of going against a ruler, a person in power, or a set of rules or laws that are set in place.

Disruption in the class is when the teacher stops talking to quiet down other students that are talking while he is talking.

They usually just tell the student to stop talking and that is it. In some of my previous classes some of the teachers have threatened to write students up for disrupting the class

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1. Disrespect is intentionally trying to offend one another and to not care if something comes down that's going to humiliate you or something similar.

2. To not follow instructions or orders by their teachers but instead is an obstruction to his classmates.

3. Someone who is loud purposely and thinking they know better than the teacher.

4. They handle it in a calm way and warns the person if they don't stop their actions then they will face the consequence.

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1. Disrespectful is talking over someone as they're talking or talking back to someone way older than yourself. It varies.
2.Acting completely ignorant for attention or because they feel above anything or anyone.
3. When the teacher is in the middle of a lesson and someone wants to shout "can I use the restroom" or when the teacher is in the middle of teaching and students want to be on their phone.
4.They just say "you guys need to stop" or "I'm gonna write you up"

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1. What is DISRESPECT to you?
- being rude and ignorant to someone
2. What do you consider to be DEFIANCE?
- refusing to do something
3. Disruption in my classes is normally people talking or someone on their phone.
4. Normally the teacher would just tell the kids to stop talking or tell them to put your phone away. Some teachers might be stricter and take your phone.

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Disrespect to me in a classroom sense. Is blatant ignorance. If someone is pompously going against a teacher rules then that is disrespectful, if a student is sleeping in class is not disrespect let them sleep if they fail that is there problem.

Defiance is disobeying a teacher whilst there telling and told you to stop.

Disruption is being obnoxiously loud, making dumb noises, throwing things ETC. Talking to a fellow peer is not a disruption until the teacher point it out.

The Teacher is responsible for the behavior of the students no matter the severity of disobedience by the students ,but the teachers at AHS are rather lilac apart from the few but the few tend to be on a tyranny.

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1. What is DISRESPECT to you?
- being rude to someone
2. What do you consider to be DEFIANCE?
- refusing to do something and not listening to them
3. What does DISRUPTION in your classes look like?
- talking throwing stuff around the room and fighting
4. How do your teachers handle this in class?
- seating charts, send them out, write them up, or call the principle.

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1. What is DISRESPECT to you? It is when someone makes fun of you or acts like you don't matter,

2. What do you consider to be DEFIANCE? It is when you do not do what is told or you do something that you were told not to do. It is disrepectful.

3. What does DISRUPTION in your classes look like? People not listening when the teacher is talking. People doing thing or talking when they are supposed to be listening.

4. How do your teachers handle this in class? Some yell, some send the kids to the office, some give them extra work, some write them up. I don't know what is best.


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